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学んだこと、ふかいいい
There are 5 stages of relationships,and here's the interesting part:
Most people never make it past stage 2.
Stage 1 is the honeymoon phase.Chemistry's high.Red flags are invisible.
You're bonding over similarities- not reality
Then comes stage 2:the power struggle.
You start seeing the differences.You stop idealizing.Little things become big things.Most couples get stuck here forever.fighting for control,resenting what used to feel cute.
Or they break up and repeat stage 1with someone else.New person, same pattern.
Stage 3 is acceptance.You realize this person might never change.
Can you build something better together?
Most people quit here because it's hard .It's not excitement anymore.- it's work.
Stage 4 is real commitment.Not convenience.Not conditions.You're building something than lasts
Stage 5 is oneness.You understand each other better than you understand yourselves.But you don't get there by chasing feelings -you get there by choosing each other through everything
